But it’s 2026, and relationship dynamics are changing. Love is often associated with statements like ‘You complete me,’ ‘I can’t live without you,’ or ‘You are my other half. In fact, Bollywood has long taught us that love is about giving yourself entirely to a relationship , sometimes even at the cost of your own identity. It’s time we acknowledge that love doesn’t necessarily have to mean losing yourself in the process. Gen Z is redefining what relationships look like, and in doing so, it may also be reshaping the relationship landscape for generations to come. In an interview with HT Lifestyle, Chandni Gaglani, EVP and Head of Aisle, breaks down the concept and explains how Gen Z is redefining love, relationships and individuality.
Also read | Mental health expert explains why good people don’t always make happy married couples Chandni highlighted that for generations, being in love was often associated with being together, spending most of your time with your partner, sharing social circles, making decisions as a unit and, in many ways, allowing the relationship to become a central part of your identity. But relationships are changing, and so is the definition of togetherness. “ Compatibility is no longer just about enjoying the same things or wanting the same future. A partner can be an important part of who you are without becoming the entirety of who you are. Careers, friendships, hobbies, family, personal ambitions, and even time spent alone continue to shape an individual’s identity after they enter a relationship. “The idea of a partner completing you is gradually giving way to something more balanced: finding someone who complements the life you are already building. This doesn’t make the relationship less meaningful,” explained Chandni. If anything, it can make the choice to be together more intentional. Perhaps the biggest change in Gen Z’s approach to relationships is that commitment is being separated from the idea of losing individuality. That may mean having separate interests but shared values, spending time apart but remaining emotionally connected, and supporting each other’s ambitions without feeling threatened by them. At the heart of this shift is not a fear of commitment, but a redefinition of it. Gen Z isn’t necessarily asking for less from relationships. They may simply be asking for something different: companionship without confinement, intimacy without dependence, and commitment without the loss of self. It is I know who I am, you know who you are, and we still choose each other,” concluded Chandni. Note for the readers: This article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional advice. Please consult a qualified expert for personalised guidance.
Because you cannot function without each other; you are together because you genuinely want to share your lives, you are not together. “Because perhaps the healthiest version of love isn’t you.
It can also mean being comfortable with each other’s differences and giving each other the room to explore them,” said Chandni. There is also a growing shift away from the idea that a relationship should become the defining feature of a person’s life, according to Chandni.
“For Gen Z , finding a meaningful relationship does not necessarily mean giving up the life that existed before it. They want love, companionship and emotional intimacy, but increasingly, they also want the freedom to remain individuals within the relationship,” highlighted Chandni. “Their careers, friendships, interests, ambitions and personal space continue to matter. This isn’t necessarily a rejection of commitment. Instead, it reflects a changing understanding of what commitment can look like: choosing someone without having to lose yourself in the process,” added Chandni. Having separate friendships, pursuing individual interests, travelling alone, maintaining personal routines, or simply wanting time by yourself is less likely to be interpreted as a lack of love. Instead, these forms of independence can create space for both partners to continue growing as individuals.
For older generations, spending significant time together could often be viewed as a natural indicator of closeness, according to Chandni. Today, Gen Z is increasingly comfortable with the idea that intimacy does not have to mean constant togetherness.
