From instant coffee and ready-to-eat meals that let us grab a bite before rushing to work to grocery deliveries that arrive within minutes, convenience has become an integral part of our everyday lives. We seem increasingly willing to pay a premium for solutions that save time and effort.
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Because they serve us up both stuff and a sense of relief, shop-and-deliver apps and quick-turn delivery have become downright addictive. Because it is morally correct to do so, but because this way we maintain our comfort with effort, it could sometimes be possible to brew a cup of coffee yourself, make a sandwich or go on foot to a nearby store, not.
We’re all rather good at thinking up ways to avoid effort and make our lives easier; that is exactly the job our brains have evolved to do,” said Divya. Let’s not idealize convenience either, according to Divya. “What should be done is not to get rid of convenience, but to be more aware of its usage,” said Divya.
