Actor Anupama Parameswaran recently revealed that she was made to feel ashamed of having periods and being a woman by her ex-boyfriend. The actor stated that she went from wanting 11 children to not wanting any after her experience with a person she termed to be ‘narcissistic’.
She said that she was also made to feel bad about her achievements as an actor.
The couple also sparked rumours at award shows with their chemistry. Anupama returned to social media in July after a break and began revealing all about her ex without naming him. She also compared his personality to Vikram’s Anniyan.
Since early 2025, it has been rumoured that the couple is dating after fans discovered an unverified kissing photo and a shared Spotify playlist.
Anupama shared the screen with Dhruv Vikram in Mari Selvaraj’s Bison Kaalamaadan last year.
On Dhyan Varma’s YouTube channel, Anupama revealed that her ex-boyfriend would make her feel ashamed of many things, including being a woman and her career as an actor. “I was in a situation where I was ashamed that I was an actor. I was ashamed that I was confident. I was ashamed that I have my periods and I’m a woman. She claimed that everything about her was slowly changed by this person, from her dressing to her work. she didn’t name anyone While fans have come to the conclusion that she’s speaking about Dhruv Vikram . “Imagine your own boyfriend s**t-shaming you before you go onto a stage. For two years of my life, I’ve been constantly pretending that I’m okay. The person you are talking to right now is the same person I am everywhere. I don’t wear a mask and walk out of the home. For the last two years, I’ve been pretending to be okay. I started crying when a journalist asked me a question. I’m not someone who cries on stage, no matter how difficult the situation is. A person who was supposed to protect me was destroying me. People mocked me for that. It had nothing to do with Paradha. It was about what I was going through in my real life.”
In two long videos on the YT channel, Anupama spoke about being in a controlling relationship with an unnamed person for 2 years. Because of him and broke down during the Paradha promotions after being s**t-shamed, the actor outright stated that she didn’t promote Dragon. Because of her gut instinct, she also claimed that she was constantly pressured to get engaged and married to him, but she kept putting it off. Earlier reporting noted: Anupama Parameswaran says she broke down at Paradha promotions due to ex-boyfriend; it was not a stunt: ‘I was mocked’ Actor Anupama Parameswaran has been revealing it all about being in a relationship with an unnamed person for the last two years. Because i was told the most awful things a woman can hear, it’s.
And once I did not,” she said. Earlier reporting noted: Describing what happened, she further said, “I was sitting wearing a red chudidar at a promotional event for Paradha. They said I was playing a sympathy card, or it was part of the promotions.
She talked about breaking down while promoting her Telugu film Paradha last year, revealing that she was s**t-shamed before the press meet. Earlier reporting noted: On Dhyan Varma’s YouTube channel, Anupama stated that she pretended to be okay for two years, except for on one occasion.

