Parents generally want the best for their children and frequently give advice to protect them from making mistakes or getting hurt. But as children become adults, the parent-child relationship also needs to evolve. Excessive scrutiny may eventually cause friction, especially once the child turns eighteen and begins seeking greater independence.
From a psychological and mental health standpoint, if parents continuously try to control the lives of their children, it can greatly impact their child’s self- esteem, independence, and mental well-being. When parents have always made every life decision for their adult child, it can make them anxious, bitter, unable to make a decision, or fear making the ‘wrong’ life decision. Being a good parent throughout this period looks like offering guidance and mentorship, not control. Note to readers: This article is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of your doctor with any questions about a medical condition.
Archana Singhal, counsellor, family therapist, and founder of Mindwell Counsel, told HT Lifestyle that parents need to gradually shift from controlling their children’s choices to offering guidance and support as they enter adulthood. The expert said, “Being eighteen means stepping out of childhood into adulthood.
